lisa, Author at Lisa & Rasheida https://lisaandrasheida.com/author/lisa/ Wed, 12 Apr 2023 21:55:50 +0000 en-US hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=6.6.1 https://lisaandrasheida.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/02/New-Project-2-100x100.png lisa, Author at Lisa & Rasheida https://lisaandrasheida.com/author/lisa/ 32 32 Pride! https://lisaandrasheida.com/pride/ https://lisaandrasheida.com/pride/#respond Tue, 28 Jun 2022 03:51:56 +0000 https://lisaandrasheida.com/?p=511 As June draws to a close, I, as a member of the LGBTQIA+ community, want to acknowledge that June is Pride Month. It is a time when the world openly...

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As June draws to a close, I, as a member of the LGBTQIA+ community, want to acknowledge that June is Pride Month. It is a time when the world openly recognizes and celebrates self-affirmation, diversity, dignity, love, acceptance, and equality, which are values we embrace every day of our lives.

The rainbow flag is the most recognizable symbol of Pride, with each color holding its own significance. Hot pink represents sex, red signifies life, orange represents healing, yellow radiates sunlight, green invokes nature, turquoise inspires magic and art, indigo (royal blue) means serenity, and violet distinguishes the spirit.

Pride Month started with the first pride march in 1970, and Harvey Milk, a gay politician, asked a friend to design a flag that represented the energy of the people at the march. The result was the rainbow flag, which has become a staple at Pride events worldwide.

The first pride march was held on June 28th, 1970, in New York City, to honor the Stonewall Riots, which occurred on June 28, 1969. The Stonewall Inn, a gay club, was subjected to brutal police raids, which sparked the gay rights movement. June 28th is now celebrated as Pride Day.

Pride Month is a time to celebrate with parades, makeup, costumes, rallies, and glitter. However, it is also a time to remember those who have struggled before us and to raise awareness about issues that affect our community, such as HIV/AIDS, suicide, and hate crimes.

Live proud, live free. Let me be me, and I’ll let you be you. We don’t have to agree, but we can respect each other.

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Will the Smith saga continue to rock the world? Blame Jada… https://lisaandrasheida.com/will-the-smith-saga-continue-to-rock-the-world-blame-jada/ https://lisaandrasheida.com/will-the-smith-saga-continue-to-rock-the-world-blame-jada/#respond Fri, 20 May 2022 01:11:13 +0000 https://lisaandrasheida.com/?p=486 The recent incident involving Will Smith and the Academy’s decision to suspend him for 10 years has been a hot topic online. In this article, we’ll discuss the punishment and...

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The recent incident involving Will Smith and the Academy’s decision to suspend him for 10 years has been a hot topic online. In this article, we’ll discuss the punishment and how it relates to institutional racism. Additionally, we’ll address the rumors surrounding Will’s marriage with Jada Pinkett-Smith.

Firstly, the Academy’s decision to suspend Will Smith for 10 years seems excessive. Will Smith has a history of charitable work and has no widely known enemies. While it’s important to hold individuals accountable for their actions, the punishment seems to be a ploy to make an example for future encounters. It also raises concerns of institutional racism, as black men often receive harsher sentences than their white counterparts. In the history of the Academy, only five people have been expelled, four for sexual misconduct and one for copyright infringement.

Moving on to Will’s marriage with Jada Pinkett-Smith, there has been much speculation surrounding their relationship. However, their marriage is consensual and private, and it’s not for others to judge. On the Red Table Talk web series, Will & Jada discussed a time when Jada was unhappy, and Will encouraged her to go find her own happiness. While society may think Will should leave Jada, it’s not our place to interfere.

Furthermore, Jada is a strong woman who can handle herself, and it’s not up to Will to protect her at all times. In any healthy relationship, both parties establish boundaries and respect each other’s wishes. Blaming Jada for Will’s decisions is unfair and reminiscent of the old debate of victim-blaming.

In conclusion, the punishment handed down to Will Smith seems excessive, and the discussion surrounding his marriage with Jada Pinkett-Smith is not our business. It’s important to respect others’ privacy and not judge their relationships without proper context.

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Why so much pressure? https://lisaandrasheida.com/why-so-much-pressure/ https://lisaandrasheida.com/why-so-much-pressure/#respond Fri, 20 May 2022 01:07:42 +0000 https://lisaandrasheida.com/?p=500 In today’s fast-paced and demanding world, it’s no surprise that mental health has become a critical topic for everyone. From the pressures we face in our youth to the challenges...

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In today’s fast-paced and demanding world, it’s no surprise that mental health has become a critical topic for everyone. From the pressures we face in our youth to the challenges we encounter as adults, mental health issues impact our lives in various ways, and it’s crucial to acknowledge and address them. In this article, we’ll explore the different stages of life and the mental health challenges that may arise, as well as provide resources for those in need of support.

Growing up, we experience a multitude of pressures from our parents, teachers, and peers. The expectations to excel academically, athletically, and socially can often feel overwhelming. Additionally, navigating the complexities of adolescence, such as puberty and finding our place among our peers, can further contribute to stress and anxiety.

As we transition into adulthood, we must learn to become self-sufficient and find our own path. This new stage of life can be riddled with uncertainty and loneliness, as we leave behind our familiar support systems and venture into the unknown. Adapting to new environments and responsibilities can be challenging, and the stress of adulting – including financial obligations, career choices, and personal relationships – can take a toll on our mental health.

In recent years, the world has faced unprecedented challenges, including the COVID-19 pandemic, which has resulted in widespread social isolation, economic strain, and anxiety. The ongoing threat of global conflict only adds to the daily stress and uncertainty we all face. As a result, mental health issues, such as depression, anxiety, and post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD), have become even more prevalent.

Given the multitude of pressures we face in today’s world, it’s essential to recognize the importance of mental health and seek help when needed. If you or someone you know is struggling with mental health issues, including depression, anxiety, grief, bipolar disorder, PTSD, or eating disorders, please consider reaching out to the Substance Abuse and Mental Health Services Administration (SAMHSA) National Helpline at 1-800-662-HELP (4357).

Keywords: mental health, pressures, adolescence, adulthood, anxiety, depression, stress, COVID-19, PTSD, SAMHSA

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