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To be or Not to be (Gay Teen Pageants)?

By November 29, 2019April 13th, 2023No Comments

Have They Lost Their Minds? Let’s Talk about Pageants for All Youth

When I first heard the question “have they lost their minds?” in regards to the idea of having pageants for all youth, I was initially tempted to respond with a knee-jerk emotional reaction. As a black and gay woman, I understand why people of color may feel negatively about pageants due to their historical context. However, I also believe that it’s important to approach this question with an open mind and engage in an intelligent dialogue about another perspective on the issue.

This is where the work of Lisa and Rasheida comes in. Our platform (https://www.lisaandrasheida.com) creates a space for discussions about important issues, including the role of pageants in our society. As individuals, we have a responsibility to answer questions and provide our unique perspectives. So, let’s address the question at hand – do we need pageants for all youth?

Historically, pageants were divided into male and female categories. However, times have changed and we need to consider alternative programs, opportunities, social organizations, and pageants that support our youth. This means redefining the narrative and creating appropriate venues, athletic events, and pageants for different audiences. In this way, we can ensure that everyone has a fair opportunity to participate.

Of course, we must also consider the issue of identity. While I support the authentic journey of self-identification, we must acknowledge that different issues affect different people. As a gay woman who has been married for 20 years, a mother, preacher, consultant, and speaker, I understand that each of these arenas is different and should be handled with respect.

So, to answer the question, I believe that we need pageants for all youth. However, we must ensure that they are designed to be inclusive and supportive of all individuals. Let’s create a society where everyone has a fair chance to shine!

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